What is this purpose that we seek? Why is everyone looking for it? Once you establish why, you can begin to understand where you can find it. Remove the clutter in your life that is not serving you. What you thought you wanted needs to be examined and defined and re-addressed. If you have to make sacrifices, do so for the greater good. Do not skirt your obligations but understand them. What is really making them tick, what is underneath them and what is bubbling up. Once that is apparent, your purpose according to you and you alone will emerge seemingly out of the blue. Then you will soon realize it has always been there.