Trial by fire. It takes massive courage and resolve. Going through it is everything. The learning’s from it pay off ten fold. Take a shot and then take another shot. Don’t back down and let it happen. Your mind will trick you into thinking you should not do it. Don’t believe it. It’s just a reaction to save you. You don’t need saving because you are here. You are not a figment in someone else’s imagination. You are here and now and able to impose your will on everyone and everything as you want to.