The desire for outside validation is always around us. We are constantly inundated by what we may not have or think we need. It’s all a mirage you have to train yourself to see through. The advertising and in your face nature of commerce and capitulation makes it so. The so-called fear of missing out is just in your mind. The top 10 lists exist for those that make them. They do not exist for you because they have already changed by the time you read about them. Use them as guide posts, not truths. When your not chasing someone else’s dream you can live your own.