Keep the faith. Where there appears to be a failure can eventually lead you to success. Even if you thought the failure was really one, sometimes it is not. Nothing is one unless you think it is. If you treat life this way, you will learn from them and be repaid. If you throw up your hands and start raining down pity you will continue to suffer. You should deal with people and more or less situations as they are, and never as what they were.