Design your life as you see fit. Not what others think you should do but what you want to see happen. Because anything you do will take some effort. It may as well be what you want to do. Remove thoughts that what you want to do can’t support you. It will because you will find a way. Things will move around you in the direction you ask them too. But if you don’t ask, or don’t direct them somewhat, you will find yourself in a position you don’t want to be in.