We are all connected, for good or bad. Why not aim for better, instead of worse? They are two sides, to everything. One side is joy, the other is suffering. Both start with words and filter down to actions. We experience both sides. The side you focus on is up to you and will reflect your life. The choice is up to you. If you choose suffering, you will perceive your world as cruel, unfair, divided, full of fear and longing. If you choose joy you will perceive your world as accepting, open, just, and full of freedom and opportunity. A wise sage once said, ‘Make happy, be happy.’