Try to surround yourself with the right people. People that you can have open two-way communication with. People that can point out your blind spots, and that are willing to accept your thoughts in return. People that align with your vision of how you want to live your life, and may see angles you may have missed. People you do not judge and do not want judge you. People who you want to help without expecting anything in return. People willing to do the same for you, without sacrificing who they are. Keep this in mind and when you find it, you will know you have.