Move against tendency and set a new pattern to see what emerges. Our experience seems to predicate the next move, but often times this is false information. We are wired to think we know the future, but we really have little control of how something is going to proceed. The control we do have is to recognize we don’t have it. So where does this put us? What inner voices should we tap into? One way is to be focused and aware of who is saying what and to whom.