Get back at it. Learn from your mistakes and take the challenge again and again. Each time you do you will only be closer and closer to your end goal. It’s short choppy steps but they add up in the long run. Others may see this as magic but it’s not so. Everyone has this capacity if they choose to do so, because you can author your own reality. Just try it a couple of times. You will be surprised how often you do, and things fall into place as they should.