Never gaze to far into the future. You will find yourself building a life that is not yours yet. Trust it to flow as it should. Through heartache and through joy never doubt it is serving you and therefore you it. You can take certain steps to practice this over and over. But realize there are unexplained things that happen everyday to everyone. You are not immune to it. Respect the process. Cherish each moment as you can. Then let go of controlling it.